the key word is loosely

for this life i loosely call mine is a gift i give to others in so many ways so much of the time... it is a paradox of course, for it is my choice to give it away, to let others lead, to hold on loosely, so to speak (or sing, for that matter)... and being my choice, i am apparently making the decision, that is, am in control... and my choice, my decision, is to live for others, to give this life away (cuz sharing caring is my favorite thing to do and while it does take two, for my part giving is the best way to get there cuz, after all, giving is halfway to sharing)... hence, loosely called mine, see?... yeah, whatever...