denial

she borrowed more, this time from an insurance policy, to pay for other debts and to pay rent and to pay for all the things that her income cannot pay for... and she does not see that this is the same thinking and pattern that has dug her into a debt hole year after year that requires her to be dependant on him for a roof and a lot more... and after weeks of letting time pass ignoring the promise she made to share the daily spending she does with him in a real attempt to stop denying and change the spending habits that created the financial mess she has been in for years, seeing that she continues borrowing to pay for borrowed money, he finally sends her a text letting her know he is ignoring he avoidance and knows that is enabling, but if all he can do is wait until she reaches a point where there is no longer any way to borrow more money and that will be hitting bottom and she will not have any alternatives and while he is afraid of what she might do that day, he reassured her that he will be here to help her through it... her habits will have to change then, for she will have no other way out short of finding another support system or person or ending her life and she says she is too afraid to do that... he shudders and realizes that she says a lot of things that are based in denial and are not true and he doesn't want to think about that, but what else can he do but wait... but he's tired of the disrespect...